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New Year: Setting Your Family Up for Success

Writer: Henda CoetzerHenda Coetzer

Updated: Feb 26

As the new school year approaches, it's an ideal time to reflect, reorganise, and rejuvenate our home environments. For families, especially those with school-aged children, establishing a structured and harmonious household can significantly influence everyone's well-being and success.



The Power of Preparation and Organisation


Helping Kids Thrive

A cluttered home creates scattered minds. When mornings are a mad dash...searching for lost socks, packing lunches in a rush, or realising homework was left unfinished...it sets the tone for the entire day.

Kids carry that stress with them, making it harder to focus, follow routines, and feel confident at school.

But when home life is organised, mornings flow smoother, and kids step into their day feeling calm and capable. Knowing where their things are, what’s for lunch, and when homework happens gives them a sense of control. A little structure at home builds independence, reduces anxiety, and helps them thrive...not just in school, but in life.


Creating a Calm and Happy Home

We all feel it...the weight of a messy, disorganised space. The never-ending piles of laundry, the kitchen bench cluttered with school papers, the toys scattered underfoot. It’s exhausting, and that tension spreads through the whole family. Even pets pick up on the stress!

Now imagine walking into a home that feels light, welcoming, and under control. A space where everything has its place, where mornings don’t feel like a battlefield, and where you can actually relax at the end of the day. When home feels calm, everyone breathes easier. Kids regulate their emotions better, partners feel less overwhelmed, and you finally have the mental space to enjoy your family instead of constantly managing chaos.


More Peace, More Connection

When life feels disorganised, patience runs thin. It’s hard to be present with your family when your mind is busy juggling all the things left undone. Dinners turn into rushed checklists, and evenings are spent catching up instead of winding down.

But an organised home creates space...for connection, laughter, and the little moments that truly matter. It’s about making room for what’s important...family movie nights without guilt, mornings that start with smiles instead of stress, and a home that feels like a sanctuary, not just another to-do list.


Practical Tips to Prepare for the School Year


  1. Organise Wardrobes

    • Declutter: Sort through clothing, setting aside items that no longer fit or are worn out.

    • Involve Children: Encourage kids to participate by choosing outfits they prefer, fostering independence and decision-making skills.

    • Systematise: Arrange clothes by category or for younger kids, by day of the week to streamline morning routines. Use open pull out bins, hanging storage and simple broad categories.

      Don't worry about folding everything too neatly. It needs to be simple enough so that the kids an pack away their own laundry (if they're old enough), and also easy enough for them to find what they need without pulling everything out.

  2. Plan Nutritious Meals

    • Meal Prep: Designate a day to plan meals for the week, and if possible, prepare meals in advance.

    • Snack Stations: Organise accessible areas in the fridge or pantry with pre-portioned snacks, making it easy for the kids to help themselves.

  3. Establish a Morning Launchpad

    • Central Hub: Create a dedicated space for school bags, shoes, and essentials to prevent last-minute scrambles. Where do you naturally tend to drop things? By the front door? By the kitchen? Follow your natural tendencies and create a dedicated launchpad here.

    • Visual Reminders: Some of us need visual reminders ;-). Use a wall calendars to keep track of important dates and tasks. And keep a shopping list where everyone can see it, or on your phone so you can easily access it while you're out and about.

  4. Implement Time Blocking for Management

    • Structured Scheduling: Allocate time slots for tasks such as homework, chores, and leisure activities to promote balance and efficiency. No need to be too strict, but a time block gives some structure and predictability, so that you and the kids know what the expectations are in these time slots. Be fully present for the task at hand.

    • Family Calendar: Maintain a shared calendar to coordinate activities and ensure everyone is informed.

  5. Consider Outsourcing and Delegation

    • Assess Tasks: Identify responsibilities that can be delegated to other family members or outsourced. Hiring a tutor, cleaning service or using a meal delivery service are some examples. Hiring a professional organiser on a regular basis to do a reset is another service that can be deeply impactful.

    • Empower Children: Assign age-appropriate chores to teach responsibility and lighten the overall load.


Remember, organisation is a form of self-care, and a harmonious home is the cornerstone of a thriving family.



 
 
 

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